CHOOSE OR CHOSEN....
In life, we can either CHOOSE things or be CHOSEN for things. You CHOOSE to eat right, live right, be nice, smile, etc...
When you CHOOSE a person to have a relationship with you have to realize that just because you CHOOSE it or them doesn't always mean that they'll also CHOOSE you. A person is more than likely to accept what's given or offered to them whether they wanted it or not just because it was offered. The fact that something has been offered or presented very nicely will also help sway a decision of acceptance. I know MANY women that CHOOSE to offer their friendship, heart, love, money, emotions, etc. and any man in their right mind wouldn't refuse an offer that sounds soooo tempting. So, when the person accept what was offered, the other person gets hurt because they are NOT being fulfilled in the area where they feel they need it.
When you have been CHOSEN, it means that more than likely the person has already thought about what it means to have you in their life AND they are fully aware and prepared to do what it takes to keep you in theirs. When you've been CHOSEN, it means that come what may that person will NOT leave you, hurt you, disrespect you, etc. because they have already CHOSEN to be with AND there for you.
A few examples....
YOU CHOOSE to love someone. You CAN'T get mad if they CHOOSE NOT to love you back. (wasn't their choice to love you)
YOU CHOOSE to call someone. You CAN'T get mad if they CHOOSE NOT to answer. (wasn't their choice to talk)
YOU CHOOSE to accept disrespect, lies, cheating, etc. You CAN'T get mad if they CHOOSE to continue doing it....
WORDZ OF WIZDOM.....PEOPLE DO WHAT THEY WANNA DO! PERIOD!!!!! AND U HAVE CHOICES TOO...
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