OFCI Report: WordZ of WiZdom with Mz. Wizdom Chantrell Wilson

                                                                                      Back to Basics

From the moment we are born we are in someone else's care, being taught whatever it is they feel they want us to know, we dress how they tell us to or with what they buy for us, they teach us traditions, teach us right from wrong, so on and so forth. As we grow, we start meeting friends, classmates, co-workers, church members, etc...and we start to learn about different cultures, lifestyles, ways of doing things, traditions, beliefs, etc....and it's at that point that some of us become "torn". Torn between what we were taught, what we believe, what we found out, stumbled on, was told, researched,etc. If we are not careful, prayed up, and around positive influences this could have us feeling scared, unsure, unable to commit to things, afraid to reach out, unable to trust, distracted, feeling stuck like there's no help and you could very well slip you into a deep depression without even knowing it.
Other times, we meet people (a lil boo, gf, bf, sweetie, shawty, pappi, mami, dime, whateva)and we become sooo wrapped up into them, pleasing them, making sure they like us, saying the right things, buying them stuff(tryna prove we got ur back), sleeping with them, being jealous, hating, stalking, sweating, whatever, that we loose touch with ourselves. We forget about the talents, gifts, creativity, goals, ideas, visions, etc...that God has placed in us. Some of us get to the point where we can't make simple decisions without feeling like you need to be validated by someone. Well, I say it's time we get back to the basics. Start loving God and ourselves more, stop accepting ANYTHING/ANYONE to come and deposit JUNK into our lives. I am NOT a trash can so keep your trash in your yard!!!
GIRLS: Stop letting guys tell us girls how fine we are, how big our butts/titts are, what clothes they wanna see us in, sending half naked/naked pics, calling only for a quickie, can't take you out but can ALWAYS come over there(and late night at that), disrespecting themselves and you and being able to just say "my bad" bc they know you will take them back. BE CAREFUL of what/who you allow in your lives. BE MORE than just his booty call....

FELLAS: MAN UP! Stop giving these women a reason to call u a deadbeat and blast you on FB. Stop letting girls play you for your ride, money, sex, or whatever, you deserve to be treated with respect ALSO! Stop getting with these girls thinking "i'mma just hit it" bc IF you hit it, there's a BIG chance you will get hit with wayyyyy more later TRUST ME I KNOW!!! BE CAREFUL of what/who you allow in your lives too. BE MORE than just her booty call...WE ALL NEED TO GO BACK TO THE BASICS....

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